Why is it that irrational behavior is usually only identified by the witness and not the one who is irate. So many times have I had an out-of-body experience that caused me to transport to a different world for a short moment in time. Only to find that when I returned to reality I have left a lot of confusion and chaos in my wake.
Honest self evaluation can be our most useful tool in life. It serves so many purposes.
1. When you conduct a review of your self, you are the only person who has to know.
2. When (and I do mean "when") you find flaws in one way or another you are the
only one that can fix them.
3. You can take as long as you need to fix the flaws (there is no timeline as long
as you are working to fix things within yourself)
4. When you finally become comfortable with the "new you" others around you will
notice the change.
5. This is one of the many things you can take full credit for if you choose.
Keep in mind that your own self evaluation is only useful if you are interested in making a change before you become the dysfunctional element in any platonic, romantic, or professional relationship you may have.
Finding, admitting and fixing your flaws is a hard pill to swallow, but either you take your own medicine or you run the risk of shoving who you are down someones throat...and no one wants to be force fed.
Only you can make the true change, so learn your worth and increase your value.
"you know the saying..."if you want something done right, do it yourself"
Become a better person TODAY! Tomorrow may be too late.
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